An Exclusive Dark Tantra Experience with Jax

What Is Dark Tantra?

I’m asked often, “What is Dark Tantra” – in relation to the services I provide?

Dark Tantra is the ‘hidden’ aspect of your sexuality – hence the word ‘dark’.

If you have experience in tantra already, forget the definitions you’ve previously had of them, for now. The idea, ‘Tantra’, is a broad idea which covers the holistic aspect of the person, hence is approached in many ways and differently by different practitioners.

The ‘Dark’ In Dark Tantra

‘Hidden’ could be “hidden from society”; i.e. sexual desires that are considered taboo such as sadism, masochism, age play, submission, degradation, humiliation, enslavement, bondage, rough play, threesomes, etc.

‘Hidden’ could also be “hidden from yourself”. These are your sexual desires you haven’t quite pinpointed exactly but several aspects of it turn you on… which you may or may have not explored.

The challenge with these particular ‘kinks’ and ‘fetishes’ is it’s hard to explore them without the appropriate partner to facilitate them with. Even a kinky partner may not know or appreciate the sexual desires you have.

This is why it’s important to explore them with someone who’s knowledgeable with them and has the ability and skill to facilitate them with you in a safe space. This is where the value of a professional, such as myself, comes in great value.

Not only would you feel safe to express the extents of your sexuality you want to explore, but you’ll have the guidance and expertise of a professional which you don’t necessarily need to have a “lifestyle relationship” with; i.e. a sexual partnership or emotional baggage from attachment.

“Why Should I Explore Dark Tantra With YOU?”

I’m actually a very unique practitioner of tantra because of the level, depth and gamut of skills I have through over a decade of experience in this one domain of humanity: relationships between people, personal enlightenment, and sexuality.

• In 2009 I was a dating coach in Santa Maria, California and helped predominantly men engage with women in a manner conducive to beginning a sexual relationship. That transitioned into a relationship coaching and consulting business.
• In 2010, I was recruited into a secret society where I’ve learned to master the art of networking, social dynamics, persuasion and managing large organizations of people.
• In 2013, I published a book on relationships dynamics and sexuality, available internationally.
• In 2015 I added professional companionship to my repertoire, interfacing with high-echelon clients.
• In 2016 I became a Professional Dominatrix (the appropriate term is male pro dom) and facilitated sexual experiences for people.
• In 2017, I transitioned my Pro Domination service to Tantra Therapy whereby I can help people whom aren’t already in alternative lifestyles explore their sensuality.
• In 2020, I launched the Great Relationships University, an online school for people who want to learn social dynamics, communication skills and relationships management.

As you see, my knowledge, breadth and depth about your relationship with yourself, your relationship with others and your relationship with your sexuality is one worthwhile facilitating your experience of dark tantra.

IS DARK TANTRA BDSM?

BDSM – you’ve heard of it? – standing for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism (the DS also including “D/s” which is Domination/submission).

As you’re noticing now, BDSM is a set of dynamics and activities rather than a philosophical approach to your being (which is what tantra, on the other hand, is).

In other words, BD/SM could be part of dark tantra, but dark tantra is not BDSM. Dark Tantra as I’ve defined in the beginning, may include bdsm activities and dynamics, and may not; dark tantra is the ‘hidden’ aspects of you sexuality.

How Do You Know You’re Ready To Book A Dark Tantra Session With Me?

If you’re considering booking a dark tantra session with me, you must already know what direction you’re willing to go and have an idea on what activities, fantasy, sensations, or dynamics you’d like to explore.

If you don’t quite know what direction, what dynamic, or what activities you’re interested in, it’s better for you to have a tantra massage session instead.

If you have something in mind, or a particular desire you’d like to live out and played out, dark tantra may be a good idea.

Click here to Book a Dark Tantra session with Jax now.